Someday I Can Love Someone The Way That I Loved

Someday I can love someone the way that I loved
but U will never be loved again the way that I did

here's the answer to the question on what to prefer:

the one who loves you or the one you love...

this is also for those who are waiting for the
person they love to love them back openly, to
those who are looking for love and those who
know that their love is not meant to be...

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the
person we love, we fail to recognize
and appreciate the people who love us. We
miss out on so many beautiful things and simply
because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our
own selfish concerns.

Go for the person of deeds and not for the one of
words, for you will find rewarding happiness not
with the one you love but the one whom loves you more.

The best lovers are those who are capable of
loving from a distance, far enough to allow the
other person to grow, but never too far to feel
the love deep within your being.

To let go of someone doesn't mean you have
to stop loving, it only means that you allow
that person to find his own happiness without
expecting him to come back. Letting go is
not just setting the other person free but it is
also setting yourself free from all bitterness,
hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your
strength and weaken your faith, and never allow
pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with
wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in just
loving someone from a distance not expecting
anything in return. But be careful, for this can
sustain life but can never give enough room for us
to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful
memories of the past but real peace and
happiness come only with open acceptance of
what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our
everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions.

Others are lucky to have an actual fairy tale unfold
in their lives, when they find that this is the
significant other they've long been waiting for...

However, for some, the sad part of it is when
we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than just a friendship...
but don't be so bitter about it! For it is
a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a
LIFETIME!!! We start our desperate attempt to
get noticed and be closer but in the end our
efforts are still unrewarded and we end up
being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love.
What you need to learn is how to accept the
verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for
yourself.

Believe me, you would be better off giving that
dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible, and
let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well.

Always remember that if you lose someone
today, it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean
that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to,
but make sure that the tears wash away the
hurt and the bitterness that the past has left
with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find
its way back to you.

And when it does, pray that it may be the love
that will stay and last a lifetime.

"When I lost you, I was the one who loved you
most, but between us you lost more. For
someday I can love someone the way that I
loved you but you will never be loved again the
way that I did."

Pay attention to what you read. After you read
this, you will know the reason it was
posted! People come into your life for a
reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure
out which one it is, you will know what to do
for each person.